problems dating?

[vietviet]

How do you date a girl which we been dating for quite a while, whose parents are strict and which she isnt allowed to have a bf. Im talking really strict. She cant go anywhere mall, movies, no where. Like strict as not even going to her friends house to sleep over as in both of their parents are friends.

Only place i can see her is at school. Which really i dont want it to be only school, and we only have 2 classes together and rest in between class. I seen her only once at of her house and it was lucky and like for only 5 minutes. And the rest of our communication is on internet like every 2-4 weeks. I do really love her but there is no way this relationship be able to go same way for rest of highschool.

[Datingcritic]

No matter which way you look at it, you're in a bad situation.. Obviously you want to spend more time with this girl, but the only way you can spend time is by hiding it, which is pointless because it will just cause drama down the road...

The effort here In my opinion is on the parents, her parents... Despite being the reason for this whole thing, you have to very subtley convince them that you are the one worthy of them allowing their daughter to date... This is obviously the problem, but only you know your situation well enough to know how to deal with them. I think that your first effort is putting yourself, whether you've met them or not yet, in positions that you can just "be friendly"... again I don't know where those positions may come, or if they can, but I think the first step should always be with familiarity, and getting them getting to know you on a "non-hostile" level, to open the door for what may come after...

But the more important questions is, do YOU think that's possible?

LB

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