Confused

[jackbauer450]

Seeing this girl for a few weeks now, we're young and I just assumed we were going out. We're comfortable with each other and have even made out. She said to me one night "we should go out like on a real date". This confused me, I thought we were already going out. What the heck is the difference?

[moltenstud]

Girls just do that. They don't let you know that you're not dating unless they are breaking up with you.

My friend had the same problem. He wrote this girl a love letter, and then they started hanging out a lot together. They kept it kind of fun, kind of serious, but anyway, the "girlfriend" surprised him one day with an "I didn't think we were actually going out." So, he just asked her out formally, and they started dating. The relationship lasted quite awhile too. She was really in love with him.

My advice is to do what my friend did - ask her out, officially. If you need further advice, go to moltenstud.tk (http://www.moltenstud.tk/).


,MoltenStud

[Jenny]

If you never officially asked her out, then she probably doesn't realize your dating. Girls don't like to make more out of relationships then what is truly there, because that's what leads us to get hurt so often. Just sit her down, and let her know what you want the relationship to be. There way there won't be anymore questions about your status.

Another option it could be is that she may know you two are official but has another meaning to 'real date'. While you two may hang out all the time, this might not be considered a date to her. She could have been saying she'd like to go on a formal 'dinner and a movie' date.

You didn't give me enough information about the situation, to know what she's talking about in this case.