justme
05-29-2005, 09:35 PM
Ok hello all, I'm new here and really confused about alot of things Well to start off I'm a 21 yr old female and things aren't too great in my life, About 3 months or so ago my boyfriend of 3 years left me for another woman, I'm doing good with that over the hurt and moving on, we have a 2 yr old girl together and he comes to see her off and on whenever he can. So heres the story on him he is still with his current girlfriend and the other day he was over visiting with his daughter and me and him got talking and stuff and he kissed me and told me he was sorry for everytthing he has put me through, well i just told him not to worry about it that the hurt and stuff was all in the past now and he kissed me again he apoligized for kissing me and then he left he came back later that night and we went for a coffee and drove around for abit and talked we talked about his girlfriend and i asked him why he was with her and he told me it was becuz she made him hapy and then i said to him if she made him so happy then why did he kiss me and he did not have an answer to this question , after that we were driving around talking and then one thing led to another and we ended up sleeping together that night, now the thing is he has never cheated ever in his life but he cheated the other night and i dont know what to do or say to him about all of this should i act like nothing happened?...or keep having this affair with him?....I dont know what to do?.
And then on another note, i have managed to move on from him and I started talking to someone on the internet about 1.5 mths ago things were going great with us we seen eachother a couple times he always complmented me saying how beautiful i was and stuff we never kissed or did anything ual we were going to take things slow becuz we have both been messed over so many times, but every visit we had was just awsome we got along so well, then he stopped calling me,I dont know why everything was great i tried to call him and he dont return my calls, It confuses me i cant stop thinking of him but i dont know what to do, its been about a week now since i last talked to him and i dont want to keep calling him i stopped calling him i have not tried to contact him in 4 days but i dont know what to so,is he still interested in me or not I'm confused.
So this is what is going on in my messed up life right now and i have no idea what to do about any of this. So any help from anyone would be greatly appreciated.
Thankyou
And then on another note, i have managed to move on from him and I started talking to someone on the internet about 1.5 mths ago things were going great with us we seen eachother a couple times he always complmented me saying how beautiful i was and stuff we never kissed or did anything ual we were going to take things slow becuz we have both been messed over so many times, but every visit we had was just awsome we got along so well, then he stopped calling me,I dont know why everything was great i tried to call him and he dont return my calls, It confuses me i cant stop thinking of him but i dont know what to do, its been about a week now since i last talked to him and i dont want to keep calling him i stopped calling him i have not tried to contact him in 4 days but i dont know what to so,is he still interested in me or not I'm confused.
So this is what is going on in my messed up life right now and i have no idea what to do about any of this. So any help from anyone would be greatly appreciated.
Thankyou