Need help!!! please read!!!! Thanx

[goca]

Theres this girl im angry with (I do like this girl), she texted me yesterday saying she’s sorry for behaving stupid, and how I was bla bla bla (shes using our pet names for each other)…
I replied “im fine, just missing home!”
She texted back, “Home you mean me…: ) I know u through your soul u cant hide anything from me : ))
I replied “No,no,no I miss home! The place were I am now is a crap hole compared to home, except for the shopping! Which im doing right now with a friend : ) . (She knows it’s a female friend as the word for female friend, is in feminine form in the language we were writing in at the time!)
No reply from her.

Now im thinking I might have been a bit of an asshole, with the way I replied her (I could’ve joked around a bit which she was expecting, as I always do with her!

Anyway, todays my birthday, and she hasn’t contacted me, which is kinda pissing me of because shes acting stupid again! (im thinking it might have something to do with my reply to her?)

But anyway her birthday is in 13 days, and I was thinking if she doesn’t contact me at all till then, I should text her “hey (petname), Happy birthday! Oh and thanx for remembering mine!!!” and leave it at that and see what she replies! But that might seem like its bothering me that she didn’t remember mine :/

I don’t wanna seem needy, or insecure as if im thinking about her all the time, which would just turn her off but, im thinking if I did offend her with my reply, I should send her something just so she doesn’t think I tried to offend her on purpous, (that is if she was offended?)

Or I could just send her a message saying “Hey (petname), happy birthday.” and there. But im thinking she didn’t send me anything y should I send her? Or I could send her a message a week after her birthday just the usual hey how u doing kinda thing!?


Need help!!!!!!!!!!!!

[eightball61]

You both sound young. Is that true? Either way you should pick up the phone to call her. Texting is a poor and cheap way to communicate thoughts through. Often times words can get read differently than the writer intended them to be. If you are not dating this girl then you shouldn't be acting like this but again if you both are working towards a relationship then you both need to communicate.

[vanessabg]

Theres this girl im angry with (I do like this girl), she texted me yesterday saying she’s sorry for behaving stupid, and how I was bla bla bla (shes using our pet names for each other)…
I replied “im fine, just missing home!”
She texted back, “Home you mean me…: ) I know u through your soul u cant hide anything from me : ))
I replied “No,no,no I miss home! The place were I am now is a crap hole compared to home, except for the shopping! Which im doing right now with a friend : ) . (She knows it’s a female friend as the word for female friend, is in feminine form in the language we were writing in at the time!)
No reply from her.

Now im thinking I might have been a bit of an asshole, with the way I replied her (I could’ve joked around a bit which she was expecting, as I always do with her!

Anyway, todays my birthday, and she hasn’t contacted me, which is kinda pissing me of because shes acting stupid again! (im thinking it might have something to do with my reply to her?)

But anyway her birthday is in 13 days, and I was thinking if she doesn’t contact me at all till then, I should text her “hey (petname), Happy birthday! Oh and thanx for remembering mine!!!” and leave it at that and see what she replies! But that might seem like its bothering me that she didn’t remember mine :/

I don’t wanna seem needy, or insecure as if im thinking about her all the time, which would just turn her off but, im thinking if I did offend her with my reply, I should send her something just so she doesn’t think I tried to offend her on purpous, (that is if she was offended?)

Or I could just send her a message saying “Hey (petname), happy birthday.” and there. But im thinking she didn’t send me anything y should I send her? Or I could send her a message a week after her birthday just the usual hey how u doing kinda thing!?


Need help!!!!!!!!!!!!
You are both young and without communicate to each other you can't do anything,you should talk to her by a phone call or any other way in which you meet her and ask about your feelings to her.