Faling in love with one of my best friends!! nd i realy dont need this at the moment!

[goca]

Hi,

Im kinda recently falling in love with one of my best friends, and i really dont need this at the moment! and a nother thig is i dont know if she likes me that way, so i dont wanna make a move and screw our friendship up!!! (i probably wont, but the fear is always there) and also geting to like her a lot is putting me off dating other girls its so anoying!!!

Shes apparently breaking up with her boyfriend, and has recently been spending a ton of time with me, texting me a lot saying when am i comming round, did i get home allright, ect... i did act like a bit of a the other night cos i done something which kind of hurt her a bit, she got over it fairly quickly, but it made me feel really bad all night so i was silent and boring all night while we were out with a bunch of mates, eventually she asked whats wrong, and i told her, bla bla bla. it seemed to turn out ok, but it mighthave turned her off a bit. but its really confusing? do i really want to date my best friend???

[eightball61]

Im kinda recently falling in love with one of my best friends, and i really dont need this at the moment!and a nother thig is i dont know if she likes me that way

Why don't you need this at the moment? You seem to me that you want it because you are wondering if she has the same feelings. What you need to do first is make the determination of what you want and if you don't want this relationship then stop spending so much time with her.


do i really want to date my best friend???

The question should be "Do you really want to date your best friend"? I will be honest and say the chances of you both remaining friends after you both cross the friendship line is slim.

[moltenstud]

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