Should I tell my boyfriend?

[angie83]

Just looking for opinions on this:

I've been dating this guy for about 1 year now, and we
are really close. However, I've met this girl who I think likes me as more than a friend. She keeps hinting at the fact that she wants to spend time alone with me, but I have never given in. At this point in my life, I'm thinking maybe I'd like to try it. The question is, should I tell my bf or just try it and keep it a secret. I'm not sure he'd understand.

Thanks,
Angie

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[eightball61]

At this point in my life, I'm thinking maybe I'd like to try it. The question is, should I tell my bf or just try it and keep it a secret. [/url]


If you'd like to try it then you need to get out of your current relationship. It's not fair to him that you go behind his back to try this. In reality that would be considered cheating. You need to put yourself in his shoes. Would you mind him cheating on you? I doubt it......

So at this point your only 2 options are:

1: End the relationship so you can try new things.

2: Approach him with the idea of you trying this out and also him getting in on the action. I will say though that your relationship will never be the same after that point.

Good Luck

~8Ball

[Butterfly1004]

Before making any assumptions, approach her about it.

I mean some girls like attention, some girls get cozy and close, but there straight, so you never know.

It's better to lose one than two.

[moltenstud]

That is so screwed up.

Sorry. I just had to get that out of my system.

If I were him, I would definately want to know about it. Decide whether you want to do this, and then tell him. If you tell him yes, he should be the one to decide on ending the relationship or keeping it up if you just want to try it.

Haha. He might even want a video tape.

If you really love him, you'll let him know what you are going to do. Being sneaky just makes us worried and then upset when we find out...sometimes really really upset. Don't risk it.

[Angelina]

I think if you really love your BF and you 2 are serious about your relation, then don't take a risk. You can be friend with her ,spend some normal time with her alone like just 2 of you going for shopping or say going for running or for a lunch but don't involve too much.
I think you should be true and honest towards your man. What if he came to know? I am sure he won't like it. So, only be friends with her or leave your man and go with her... you understand what I mean?