Opinions Please!

[knockknock]

Hi there. This might sound a bit weird to everyone, but please just let me know what you think. I've been married for a year, but the spark's gone and he doesnt pay any attention to me anymore. He's always working or on the computer.

Just recently I went to a work "do" and met this really nice guy. He was really cute and I thought he was ignoring me all night, but at the end he came up and said to me "I can't believe you're married!" (I'm 22, so I guess what he was saying is that I'm so young - correct me if I'm wrong) But we continued to have a nice chat. He told me he'd been wanting to come over earlier, but was too shy. He asked me what I do for fun and when I said I sing, he said that I should join in on his band rehearsal one day, or w could go out for karaoke or something. Anyway, at the end of our little chat I went to shake his hand, but he just shook his head and gave me a huge hug instead.

Now, a week later, I get up the courage to call him and ask him out...he says that he doesn't want to get put in a situation where there's a problem (I don't know what this means) but that he'd love to do something as a group. He also told me more about himself and was really excited when he answered the phone and found out it was me. At the end of the conversation, he said it was really great to hear from me again.

I'm sorry about the huge long story, but I felt you needed to know all of that.

Help me please! I'm so confused. Does he want to see me again?

Lots love,

Knockknock

[bv3qc]

HE PROBABLY WANTS TO SEE YOU AGAIN IN ANOTHER CONTEXT : WHEN YOU AREN'T GOING TO BE MARRIED ANYMORE....


That is a big proble here although you are free to do whatever you want... well if you a tired of your husband, terminate the relationship and move on with the other guy, but for the sake of your current husband, don't play in his back... Men really don't like that...

think about what you are about to do... there is a lot to be considered !
phil

[nkitovar]

Hi
You have done a good question, it’s really interesting. If you get any good reply, so please let me know. So I’ll also get some good idea.
Thanks for your future help.

[lindsayrocks]

He only wants to sleep with you. Period.

He is playing like there is a "moral" issue that is keeping him form "seeing" you so that you will be misled by his advances.

And because you are CLEARLY willing to step outside of your marriage because you have received some attention, you will surely give him plenty of opportunities to make a move on you, which I will solidly bet that you will not resist.

You are about to cross a line here. Honestly, your solution to your marital problem is well outside of "moral" limits.

Talk to your husband, get therapy, work on your marriage. Do all you can to save a life with your husband. If it won't work, get divorced, THEN go out looking for a date.