What should i do...

[pkroks]

here is a story for you. well i'm new to the forums. i'm like 18 in a week or so and i suck when it comes to chicks and getting dates. i haven't even had my first kiss. ya i suck. anyway there is this chick at school, well shes from school. she lives near me and i go visit her sometimes, like we good friends. i like her and she is funny and all and just got a good personality. i would rate her body a 8/10 and shes quite cool. shes single.

I like her but i got like zip confidence. i asked another 'girl' friend of mine what to do. she suggested i grabbed and kissed her, like we walking somewhere, i stop pull her back, turn her to face me, look at her and go for the kiss. but i dono if i should do it. what would she think if i screwed it up? i wanna ask her out but dono if i should. it may screw up the friendship (but i doubt it)..

i am always like joking around with her and her with me. any advice you can give me? thanks and please don't cuss me out, i live in Africa haha

[eightball61]

The more you chicken out the more you lose out on opportunities on getting dates. You need to face your fears and just go for it. Ask her out on a date. Since you joke a lot tell her that you are being serious. If she says "no" don't take offense to it because we all get rejected. Just be proud that you faced your fears and asked her out.

Good Luck

~8Ball