Best dating self help...

[pkroks]

what is the best dating self help series out there? i have heard some stuff about double your dating, but i dono. which would you recommend?

[eightball61]

I don't use the web to find dates.....

Heck, I've been happily taken for 2 years finding a girl of my match locally:)


~8Ball

[VelvetSky]

it depends what kind of "game" you prefer - day game or club game. the best overall dating advice book is "Revelation" by pickup artist Mystery (you probably know him from VH1 and the show called "the pickup artist"). The book is basically the update of the mystery method and covers all the things you need to know about. but if you want to learn how to approah girls on the street, during the day, you simply have to read Paul Janka's "Attraction Formula".

[VelvetSky]

it depends what kind of "game" you prefer - day game or club game. the best overall dating advice book is "Revelation" by pickup artist Mystery (you probably know him from VH1 and the show called "the pickup artist"). The book is basically the update of the mystery method and covers all the things you need to know about. but if you want to learn how to approah girls on the street, during the day, you simply have to read Paul Janka's "Attraction Formula". You will find complete reviews on this site:

www.bestseductionbooks.com (http://www.bestseductionbooks.com)

[CarterGlasgow]

I like to use some of David DeAngelos advice

I have not got any of the books, but I been getting the newsletter for over a year and pick out what free advice I can get. I really think it would be worth it to get some of his material.


If your just starting off. A good way to practice (if you plan on online dating) is try some less attractive girls over 200 miles from your main point of interest. I say less attractive because they will be somewhat easier. Although you may have less of an advantage because they will see you live far away and some will not even consider sending a reply to someone that far away. So change your location to close to them. Once you gain confidence that you can attract a woman, you can slowly start moving in closer to where you actually want to meet a girl.

Everyone is different, what works on one might not work on another.
A few things I have learned is, if you have to speak of the X just do it once, super short and sweet. Then never again unless your forced.

I say something like: it was over two years ago, she left me for a rich guy, we didn't have children, I NEVER have any sort of contact with her since the day at divorce court.

And that's it. It's to much in my opinion but if they wanna know.. and I normally toss it out there when they are talking about their X and kids.
I feel it is to my benefit because I have NO contact and No children from the marriage.

Also do not say bad stuff about yourself. Say positive stuff, but try not to be conceded about yourself. I save good things back to let out later..not all at once.

That's all I can give .. I have not found what im looking for yet. The hardest thing is getting the REPLY. I have sent out like 30 first messages to 30 different girls all the same day..many times. And often have not got even one reply.

I have also lied my a$$ off just to see what females want. Ya know the whole fake profile and everything. Let me tell ya Money helps, aint that wierd?

Pimp Limp,
Carter