I'm hopeless with women

[Blazza]

Does anyone know how women tick? I've no clue, but I checked out a site called contacttoday, and there seems to be some sound advice there. Had a nice valentine's day with my boring old girlfriend who needs a personality transplant - need a new one with some spark. Ya out there?

[Angelina]

Women like a slow build-up. Take your time.

If all you are looking for is casual and you don’t care much about whether or not she has a brain or a personality, then stuff about ’shared values’ and ‘compatibility’ will not be of any great interest.

But if you are looking for something a bit more serious and long-term, take your time getting to know her before getting into boyfriend-girlfriend behaviour.

Women like to be wooed, not jumped on. They like to get to know you and trust you before getting down and dirty. By skilful use of certain NLP-style rapport techniques, you can help her to have that feeling of knowing and trusting you pretty quickly, but you do need to put in the hours developing those skills - like anything worthwhile.

Once you have developed a comfortable connection, create some space. Back off. Give her room to move towards you. If she’s really interested, she will. Like a magnet.

Same goes for . Take it slow. Don’t be in a hurry to start or to finish. Women take longer to get aroused than men, but once they are up there they can stay hot for way longer than most men can.

If you want to have the self-confidence to approach any woman you choose and the self-esteem to brush off the occasional rejection without a second thought, then practice the skill and you will definitely get the hang of it.

If you want more help with dating you can always go to Illcallyoutomorrow (http://illcallyoutomorrow.com/word/), its a wonderful place with all dating help and advice

[VelvetSky]

there's a great, award-winning eBook that covers female psychology in a way no other book does. its called "Magic Bullets" and I can truly say it changed my life. you can find a complete review here:

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[LoveMagician]

Like some one above said, take it easy with women. If you are getting rejected immeditely then you probably need to work more on the way you 'approach' them.

Hope it helps.

[zirex1269]

Focus on improving yourself and becoming attractive to women.

There are many dating books and resources out there on this.

I'd say find a mentor or coach. Go to seminars, and hang out with guys that have success with women that you can model after.

That's exactly what I did and it made a huge difference for me.

Trust me, there is a way. If I could transform my luck with women, then anyone can! And no... it doesn't require "good looks", "money" or any of that stuff!

[sweetcakes]

well, being considerate with them works a lot, it takes a while but if you listen to them, actually make them feel they're not crazy you may take a month or two but really get the good and happy girlfriend package, show her that you're a fun person to be with, as in not needy or anything but relaxed and a nice guy. it's not hard if you start off as friend and try not to be so obvious haha

but if you often get to a point where girlfriends bore you and you're tired of the security a relationship brings... then you may feel like that with anyone else after the first times of fun and become a male :rolleyes: if that's all you go for, go to a bar and pick up guys' pretty girl friends, that could go easier...

[tristan]

Don't be too bothered by the negative outcomes...

Don't try to guess what women are thinking...especially when they are giving You cold shoulders or playing mind game with You.

Just focus on improving yourself and cultivating the personalities that women are attracted to..

Generally....most women would prefer a man who is challenging, humorous and confident...

Once You can bring across all these desirable traits......

You would be seeing very good results with women...no joke..

[hawtness]

poor thing!! facing the same problem all men face time to time.here i would totally agree to what angline said,every bit.thats so true.when it comes to women....take it slowwwwwwwwwwww...thats how it works.thats one great advice u wanna have,never do the fast and furious tihng ;) u know what i mean ;).you also wanna hear to the love guru,hes got some awesome things to tell to men abuot how to get close to hot women and all.

[Tmoney]

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[charles457]

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