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Majordubt
02-17-2006, 09:10 PM
There is this girl i have liked for a few months. Im not sure if she likes me though. We go to the same church and we usually sit beside each other (all the teens sit togther, she sits next to me). Its hard for me though to carry a conversation out for any length of time with a girl i like. But we do talk. We go to different schools. But i go to their basketball games (my sister goes to the school, and plays basketball) and she starts out sitting next to me. Then the part where i can hold on a conversation kicks in and i guess she gets bored with me and she leaves and sits with other guys (usually the same one but not always). And recently her ex boyfriend (which is also in the teen group) said that she is leaving the school shes at but wouldn't tell him why. SO i just need some advice as to what to do. Whether i should give up (which i will not do0 or some other way. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

CuteSubGuy
08-21-2006, 02:06 AM
There is this girl i have liked for a few months. Im not sure if she likes me though. We go to the same church and we usually sit beside each other (all the teens sit togther, she sits next to me). Its hard for me though to carry a conversation out for any length of time with a girl i like. But we do talk. We go to different schools. But i go to their basketball games (my sister goes to the school, and plays basketball) and she starts out sitting next to me. Then the part where i can hold on a conversation kicks in and i guess she gets bored with me and she leaves and sits with other guys (usually the same one but not always). And recently her ex boyfriend (which is also in the teen group) said that she is leaving the school shes at but wouldn't tell him why. SO i just need some advice as to what to do. Whether i should give up (which i will not do0 or some other way. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1


I'm not sure if you're still around but, I'd like to give my 2 cents. Girls love guys that can hold a conversation. Are you just shy or run out of things to talk about? You can talk about anything, find out what she likes, take an interest in it and talk about that. The only way you should give up is if you don't start talking. Just bring up things and start rambling so much she tell you to shut up lol "Joke"

I hope everything works out for you! Good Luck!

vanessabg
12-30-2006, 02:37 PM
There is this girl i have liked for a few months. Im not sure if she likes me though. We go to the same church and we usually sit beside each other (all the teens sit togther, she sits next to me). Its hard for me though to carry a conversation out for any length of time with a girl i like. But we do talk. We go to different schools. But i go to their basketball games (my sister goes to the school, and plays basketball) and she starts out sitting next to me. Then the part where i can hold on a conversation kicks in and i guess she gets bored with me and she leaves and sits with other guys (usually the same one but not always). And recently her ex boyfriend (which is also in the teen group) said that she is leaving the school shes at but wouldn't tell him why. SO i just need some advice as to what to do. Whether i should give up (which i will not do0 or some other way. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
As you said you are a shy person and your girlfriend likes conversation which you can't do because of shyness.I think you should try to give up your shy then you continue your relation with that girl otherwise you remain alone due to shy nature and no girl like your company any more.