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painfulheart
08-02-2006, 08:33 AM
Thng is its complicated, i reallly like this girl
*we are both in same uni course
*we had time to talk last semster, now we dont
*she has a boyfriend (and in no way do i intend to break them up)
*since our break ive been avoiding her, eyes and contact (dunno what to do)
*ive seen her looking at me trying to catch my eye, she even came over to say hi to me today

I know i cant have a relationship with her (atm) what i thinks wrong is that i miss our friendship cos my feelings for her are stoping me being a friend (sorta like i dont want to ruin a relationship chance in future)

What i want to do is say hey, lets sit and talk for a few hours (even if others are around) but i cant (i feel like she may think i wanna be more than friends atm) i do, but wont cos of bf

Im quite sure she knows i have a crush, and im extremely sure she likes me (friend) and maybe is a little interested

i want to do it all face 2 face, no real question, please say what you would do if u were me.

LetsMakeOut
08-17-2006, 06:28 PM
First of all I would stop worrying about what she may or may not think. Don't think about that stuff, it's just a waste of time and it might mess with your game if you think about it too much. Just act normal around her, be yourself. It may be hard to control your feelings, but you have to if you are truly interested in this girl. Remember that she's human too, she has urges just like you do. Just be calm, look her in the eyes like you used to. Also remember to stay loose around her, chicks can sense tension and it turns them off. Oh and honestly bro, she's not married so she's still fair game :D Good luck!