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fetus
10-05-2006, 12:08 AM
Ok so here's a little background on the subject. I meet this girl, we talk regularly and have friendly conversation and what not. She invites me to a friends birthday party and really wants me to come. She texts my phone after asking her where the place is, making sure I can still come. At this point I am fairly sure she has at least SOME interest as logic would say so. Anyway, we have fun at this party and we get drunk blah blah blah...and I contact her later, like a day or two later and this is the conversation:
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:29 PM
Haha, yea it was fun. Again, I appreciate the invite and tell Friend I said thanks!
That's cool, when you get the time just let me know.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Girl
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:27 PM
hey! well no, im pretty sure i made a dumb ass of myself ALL through the night. Glad you were able to make it! Um, next weekend through about the next 3 years of weekends is going to be hard to tell if I'll be able to hang out with anyone. But if i am able to i'll give you a call.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:09 PM
What are you doing next weekend? Let's go hang out, go bowling or something. You're pretty cool to be around and I hope to GOD I didn't humiliate myself too much! Haha, I don't remember much of what I had said throughout the night but I tend to get pretty emo. Anyway, take care yo!
Ok, so my question here is...is her response just a typical blowing-you-off-in-a-non-rude-way or do you think they're is legitimate interest. I am horrible at reading these situations and would appreciate some feedback.
Cardinal
10-11-2006, 05:13 PM
Fetus,
first thing is that your came off as really needy to her. Plus when you first met her, I will be willing to bet that you didn't build any attraction with her.
>> What are you doing next weekend? Let's go hang out, go bowling or something. You're pretty cool to be around and I hope to GOD I didn't humiliate myself too much! Haha, I don't remember much of what I had said throughout the night but I tend to get pretty emo. Anyway, take care yo!
you're chasing... not good
check out my podcast I made on this very topic. It will help you out. it's on the online tab on the page
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Best,
Cardinal
Ok so here's a little background on the subject. I meet this girl, we talk regularly and have friendly conversation and what not. She invites me to a friends birthday party and really wants me to come. She texts my phone after asking her where the place is, making sure I can still come. At this point I am fairly sure she has at least SOME interest as logic would say so. Anyway, we have fun at this party and we get drunk blah blah blah...and I contact her later, like a day or two later and this is the conversation:
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:29 PM
Haha, yea it was fun. Again, I appreciate the invite and tell Friend I said thanks!
That's cool, when you get the time just let me know.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Girl
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:27 PM
hey! well no, im pretty sure i made a dumb ass of myself ALL through the night. Glad you were able to make it! Um, next weekend through about the next 3 years of weekends is going to be hard to tell if I'll be able to hang out with anyone. But if i am able to i'll give you a call.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:09 PM
What are you doing next weekend? Let's go hang out, go bowling or something. You're pretty cool to be around and I hope to GOD I didn't humiliate myself too much! Haha, I don't remember much of what I had said throughout the night but I tend to get pretty emo. Anyway, take care yo!
Ok, so my question here is...is her response just a typical blowing-you-off-in-a-non-rude-way or do you think they're is legitimate interest. I am horrible at reading these situations and would appreciate some feedback.
Cardinal
10-11-2006, 05:15 PM
Fetus,
first thing is that your came off as really needy to her. Plus when you first met her, I will be willing to bet that you didn't build any attraction with her.
>> What are you doing next weekend? Let's go hang out, go bowling or something. You're pretty cool to be around and I hope to GOD I didn't humiliate myself too much! Haha, I don't remember much of what I had said throughout the night but I tend to get pretty emo. Anyway, take care yo!
you're chasing... not good
check out my podcast I made on this very topic. It will help you out. it's on the online tab on the page
seductiontech(.)com
Best,
Cardinal
Ok so here's a little background on the subject. I meet this girl, we talk regularly and have friendly conversation and what not. She invites me to a friends birthday party and really wants me to come. She texts my phone after asking her where the place is, making sure I can still come. At this point I am fairly sure she has at least SOME interest as logic would say so. Anyway, we have fun at this party and we get drunk blah blah blah...and I contact her later, like a day or two later and this is the conversation:
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:29 PM
Haha, yea it was fun. Again, I appreciate the invite and tell Friend I said thanks!
That's cool, when you get the time just let me know.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Girl
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:27 PM
hey! well no, im pretty sure i made a dumb ass of myself ALL through the night. Glad you were able to make it! Um, next weekend through about the next 3 years of weekends is going to be hard to tell if I'll be able to hang out with anyone. But if i am able to i'll give you a call.
----------------- Original Message -----------------
From: Me
Date: Oct 1, 2006 3:09 PM
What are you doing next weekend? Let's go hang out, go bowling or something. You're pretty cool to be around and I hope to GOD I didn't humiliate myself too much! Haha, I don't remember much of what I had said throughout the night but I tend to get pretty emo. Anyway, take care yo!
Ok, so my question here is...is her response just a typical blowing-you-off-in-a-non-rude-way or do you think they're is legitimate interest. I am horrible at reading these situations and would appreciate some feedback.
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