Will she stay after she comes to America??

[JField07]

Hi

I am on my mid-forties, I had not been lucky when it comes to relationships, I have been on a couple of healthy relationships in the past, but for some reason they never worked out.
For quite a while, after breaking up with my former girl, I know it sounds corny, but I started to lose faith in love. So, as a way of letting go and also having a good time, this friend of mine told me about taking one of these tours to Russia which are so popular these days because I’d meet beautiful and sincere women, so he kind of talked me into it therefore, with nothing left to lose (except for a couple of bucks), I went on that tour, and indeed I met this death-gorgeous, smart and sincere gal, we just simply clicked after meeting each other, we had the best time together while I was in Russia, and ever since I came back to the states we kept in touch almost every day by phone, chat, and e-mails,. I know it is kind of difficult to have long distance relationship, but she’s definitely worth it, plus I go to Russia every time I can.
I am very serious with her, we’re on a one-year relationship now, we have talked about her moving to the states and she’s ok with it.
Lately, I have started to think about popping the question once she moves in, of course she doesn’t know about it.
So here are my concerns:
Do you think I am rushing into things? Or should I just go for it and ask her to marry me?
Do you think it would work? You know, me being American and her being Russian? Or is it that you think she will have a hard time adapting to America and she’ll just feel like going back.



Any piece of advice would be very appreciated

Thanks

[andyhughes]

I read this report that I may be if your concern. It is an immigration report that shows that by marrying a foreign woman you have more than twice the chance of staying married than if you marry an American woman. Marrying an American woman you have a 250% greater chance of getting divorced

To see report go to: loveme/information/immigration.htm#Report

[Shewillbeloved]

I think it's possible for it to work out. A friend of mine married a Russian woman (met her in the same way) and she is great! They have been married seven years and are happy. Not saying it is a guarantee, but it is possible. She will adapt as Russian women are strong willed and resilient.

Godd luck!!

[md6973]

I was in eastern europe, and I have to agree that these women are more attractive and warm, and that american women for the most part are more shallow and concerned about themselves.

I would give advice about how to tell if she is genuinely into you, but I have no clue myself. If she is warm and loving and she pays attention to you, you are better off than with most american girls raised in the 'me' generation.

[LoveMagician]

well, I would say go for it. No doubt she seems to be into you and I dont think it would be too hard for her to adapt. Plus, she is hot, you say, so that's worth all the hassle.

[sweetcakes]

you're the only one who can know this, but i think it'd be safe to risk it since you love her =) men your age are y you shouldnt feel insecure, a protective man is a big turn on for girls and you have that for her well that's my opinion-guess on the little you said.

[Englishmax]

Hi, well I think you should be honest with her.If you are thinking about marrying her then tell her.Of course you should talk about it before she uproots her life and moves half way around the planet.

[charles457]

First I think you should wait a little longer for to adopt to the people in America and get a feel of things. She sounds interested but make sure your timing is right when you ask her. Also make sure you keep her happy because studies show that the chances of break up with Russians and Americans are high.

[cooldudenberlin]

not only are eastern european women attractive, warm and open themselves... they appreciate men who are the same... hence why so many western men (americans, canadians, australians, western europeans) have so much luck with them... compared to the men of their own region who are somewhat very macho, borderline abusive, ist, aggressive, violent and passing out drunk the contrast can be very inviting.

as far as marriage, etc. take first steps first... get her here and give her time to adjust see what she thinks - it really depends on the region, as some areas of the USA can be somewhat culture shock to even other Americans.