CoolC
08-02-2004, 07:04 AM
ok i kinda like this girl but i have been gettin mixed signals and dont know whats goin on. lemme start from the begining so it all makes sense. we go to skool together and this year i started talkin to her. from then she began givin me signals like hitting me a lot, making fun of me in a joking way and stuff. then for a while she seemed to avoid me and try her hardest not to see me so i thought she didnt want me around so i didnt talk to her for a while. when i said hi to her after not talkin to her anymore she was like oh i see how it is you dont talk to me anymore jokingly. i really didnt talk to her all that much after that but one day she called me and asked if i wanted to help her with something the next day. it was weird cause she could have asked anyone else but chose me. so anyway we did what we had to and instead of going home like i thought she was goin to she walked through a park with me for about an hour then we went back to her house and talked for two hours more. during this convo she asked me if i liked her and i was shy so i said no. then she was like well i used to like u when i first met u but not anymore but she really didnt seem to mean it. so later that day i got up the courage and told her my true feelings and asked her out and she said lemme think about it and then next day called me and said no. so i pretty much gave up and didnt talk to her for about 2 weeks as i was busy and one day i called her. she sounded happy to talk to me and said i see you forgot about me in a joking way and giggled after sayin it. i called her a few more times and kept askin if she wanted to chill or somethin but she kept giving me excuses not to and seemed to try to avoid me so i was like ok. then on friday she called me out of nowhere and was like you wanna hang out this weekend and i said fine and we agreed on today. i saw her yesterday and asked if we were still hangin out and she said shed call me today but she seemed very nervous talkin to me. then today arrives and she doesnt call and im outside and i see her and asked why she didnt call me and she said she forgot and she had plans she forgot about. but throughout this convo she was nervous again and also seemed almost speechless and couldnt really talk to me. also i dunno if this has any significance but i have seen her sister a few times lately and every time i see her she puts on a huge smile when she sees me but its the kinda smile like i know somethin that u dont.
anyway sorry this was so long but i would appreciate any advice as i am really confused about this whole situation.
anyway sorry this was so long but i would appreciate any advice as i am really confused about this whole situation.