View Full Version : Got her Number , when to call ?
Mikano
09-12-2004, 07:06 PM
Hello all, Im new Here.
Im Michael And I just thought I'd Post on here.
I Met this girl one night and we chat , talk alittle.
So I ask here , would you like to go out for dinner one night....She said sure..
Next time I met here we talked alittle and So I ask her I she Mind If I called her, she said no then she Gave me Her Number.....
Ok, I called her I got no answer. So I seen her and I have told her I called today , she said did you leave a message. (NO)
SO As I was leaving She said to call me this week, which was lastnight she saidthat.
So my question is When should I call her ? the Next day or wait two days or else.....?
Thanks
michael
downsoufhustler
09-27-2004, 04:44 PM
Whats up playboy? This is your boy D. Now that you've gotten the number, you're worried about when to call (obviously you are worried or you wouldnt have asked). Well, to put it plainly, never worry. Don't worry about when to call, don't worry about what she'll say, don't worry period, especially when it comes to women (worry - a sign of insecurity, women smell insecurity and run, ie. never call again, or move in for the kill, ie. play with your emotions and let you spend all your money on them and never give u ). But to answer your question, it never matters when u call, unless you are calling the same day you got the number (called clinging - aka being needy, for her reaction to that look at worry above). Anyways 24 hours is usaully sufficient, so anytime after that but not waiting to long because she'll forget any interest she had in you if you dont talk to her fairly soon. So past the when to call part (and I know that if you're asking when to call then you need some help with what to say), just ask for some help and i'll try to put u on the right track. Leave a reply, ill get back at you.
StrwberryLips
12-28-2004, 07:19 PM
Yeah just call her on llike a Thursday or, something like that then, plan ahead for a date or something like that...
Datingcritic
03-23-2005, 12:14 AM
Could always watch "s" and give you some great ideas...
But realistically...
24 hours is a good period... I think it's more important that you are calling at a good time of day, rather then the time elapsed... I'm thinking between 7-9 is usually a safe time in my book... earlier you run into the "food' thing... later you run into the "sleep" thing...
Lance
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vanessabg
01-07-2007, 06:47 PM
Could always watch "s" and give you some great ideas...
But realistically...
24 hours is a good period... I think it's more important that you are calling at a good time of day, rather then the time elapsed... I'm thinking between 7-9 is usually a safe time in my book... earlier you run into the "food' thing... later you run into the "sleep" thing...
Lance
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I am agree to Dating! here,i also think that the best time to call is between 7-9.it is really a safe time in my opinion.
ultimateflirt
05-22-2008, 09:02 AM
If she told you to call that night, then call her. The reason why she is asking you to call at that time is maybe if you call on other days, she may be busy and may have no time to talk to you.. Just do not be too annoying to her by calling her everyday or every hour unless things are brewing up. Be somehow mysterious. Take that chance to talk to her as an opportunity to have fun with her then give it like 2 days before you call again. In other words, make her somehow miss you.
jlemdon
06-30-2008, 03:31 PM
I usually call them a week after I get the number just to say "hey I didn't forget u shawty I just was busy working and school".
they like a man that has priorities.:D
VelvetSky
06-12-2009, 05:03 PM
don't think to much about when to call or the call in general - it will only make you nervous. think about the date - and forget about dinner dates, its the worst thing you can do (as everyone does this). be creative, come up with something new that makes fun, is exiting. in general, you have to call ca. 2 days after you get the number. here's the rule: the prettier the girl, the later you call (the idea behind this is that this way you show her that you are not THAT intersted and have other options :)
Hotgirl
07-19-2009, 08:46 AM
If you ask me. I would say you are totally blowing your chances with this girl. You needed to call right away and leave her with a positive impression of you. Sounds like you are a little wishy washy.. .. can I call you sometime? Do you like to go to dinner .... Of course her answers are going to be..... sure.... then she will just ignore your calls..... dude you need to step up and call right now....
alicia8522
08-09-2009, 10:53 AM
Wait for a day or two, then call her. It looks decent.
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