Cheap or real feelings

[misslady]

I've been hanging out with this guy and I think he might be interested in me.

Last time we were together he was falling asleep on the couch (a lil hot-n-heavy but no ) (because he had to go to work early). He said he wanted to sleep on the couch to watch his christmas tree. I was sitting in the floor in front of him and after we talked like that for a while then i thought he fell asleep. I started watching something on tv, so i figured i'd just leave when it was over (it was almost over). He said after a few minutes, you gotta go. I can't sleep with you here, I keep waking up and lookin at you. So i was like, "is that a bad thing?" and he said "NOO, i just have to get some sleep before I go to work." He drives a train, so its important that he gets enough sleep.

Did he keep waking up, looking at me, thinking good things....
Or did he keep waking up and seeing me there was getting on his nerves to where he couldn't sleep??

I talk to him on the phone every few days, and every time I call him, he seems really happy to talk to me, but yet he never calls ME.

His room mate constantly drops hints about us "becoming" a couple, and one night when we were all out drinking he said "you know he's in love with you", and every time we hang out he takes tons of pictures but its all casual.

We've actually had twice, the first time we were both drunk (bad I know) and he kept said I was gorgeous and had a gorgeous body "but I'm sure you hear that all the time.." is what he said. There was a lot of kissin and pillow talk afterwards, but the second time there wasn't much of that. :confused:

[thatgirl1969]

Yep...thye are all weird my dear....all of em....I can't read my dates very well either, and frankly I'm getting a bit tired of the guessing games...so more often than not I just voice the kind of things your askin us here....Like this " Hey, is my sticking around here tonight gettin on yer nerves"? Or this " Hey babe, what do ya think about us, when your in that thinkin mode" Huh? Usually by being open and blunt I get the answers in one form or another, and eventually I figure em out! Yep there weird allright..LOL

Take care,

Thatgirl1969

[DMH78]

Yep...thye are all weird my dear....all of em....I can't read my dates very well either, and frankly I'm getting a bit tired of the guessing games...so more often than not I just voice the kind of things your askin us here....Like this " Hey, is my sticking around here tonight gettin on yer nerves"? Or this " Hey babe, what do ya think about us, when your in that thinkin mode" Huh? Usually by being open and blunt I get the answers in one form or another, and eventually I figure em out! Yep there weird allright..LOL

Take care,

Thatgirl1969

Talk about the pot calling the kettle black, it's amazing that women can find men confusing. Men are much simplier than women, and if you're confused, then you're :confused: thinking way to hard.

[angelarose20]

Hi ya, I used to live a simple, happy life. I call it happy, but it was more of a peaceful life. Happiness has different meanings at different times.

[hotmother]

I find the guy cute... you can't always predict the guy's brain..usually they dont want girls to know what they feel.. If the guy is in love he shakens when you are around.. i suggest you stick to that guy coz he seems nice and not after of

[whiteberry]

I think this guy is not really in love with you...

[charles457]

I think you should know that it is because he likes you. will always happen.

[ninoajah]

I've been hanging out with this guy and I think he might be interested in me.

Last time we were together he was falling asleep on the couch (a lil hot-n-heavy but no ) (because he had to go to work early). He said he wanted to sleep on the couch to watch his christmas tree. I was sitting in the floor in front of him and after we talked like that for a while then i thought he fell asleep. I started watching something on tv, so i figured i'd just leave when it was over (it was almost over). He said after a few minutes, you gotta go. I can't sleep with you here, I keep waking up and lookin at you. So i was like, "is that a bad thing?" and he said "NOO, i just have to get some sleep before I go to work." He drives a train, so its important that he gets enough sleep.

Did he keep waking up, looking at me, thinking good things....
Or did he keep waking up and seeing me there was getting on his nerves to where he couldn't sleep??

I talk to him on the phone every few days, and every time I call him, he seems really happy to talk to me, but yet he never calls ME.

His room mate constantly drops hints about us "becoming" a couple, and one night when we were all out drinking he said "you know he's in love with you", and every time we hang out he takes tons of pictures but its all casual.

We've actually had twice, the first time we were both drunk (bad I know) and he kept said I was gorgeous and had a gorgeous body "but I'm sure you hear that all the time.." is what he said. There was a lot of kissin and pillow talk afterwards, but the second time there wasn't much of that. :confused:
Make up your mind,my dear..you definitely can not do that..be resolute :(

[sweetcakes]

oh come on, the desire part is very important too, because if he didn't want you then he'd only like you as a friend and that's it, and noone can love you from the first time they see you, you just have to continue talking and getting to know each other to see if it turns into something more, meaningful and everything. Besides, men never think about stuff as much as women x) only we wonder a thousand times what a movement or a look means they just take it all as it goes in the least worried way. :p so i think it's going good and you could be his one ;)

[jaxky]

either he is shy, or he is not that into you,

why don't you test him, just don't make contact with him, for a month for instance.. absolutely no communication, if he's into you, then he should contact you

[rocky]

I've been hanging out with this guy and I think he might be interested in me.

Last time we were together he was falling asleep on the couch (a lil hot-n-heavy but no ) (because he had to go to work early). He said he wanted to sleep on the couch to watch his christmas tree. I was sitting in the floor in front of him and after we talked like that for a while then i thought he fell asleep. I started watching something on tv, so i figured i'd just leave when it was over (it was almost over). He said after a few minutes, you gotta go. I can't sleep with you here, I keep waking up and lookin at you. So i was like, "is that a bad thing?" and he said "NOO, i just have to get some sleep before I go to work." He drives a train, so its important that he gets enough sleep.

Did he keep waking up, looking at me, thinking good things....
Or did he keep waking up and seeing me there was getting on his nerves to where he couldn't sleep??

I talk to him on the phone every few days, and every time I call him, he seems really happy to talk to me, but yet he never calls ME.

His room mate constantly drops hints about us "becoming" a couple, and one night when we were all out drinking he said "you know he's in love with you", and every time we hang out he takes tons of pictures but its all casual.

We've actually had twice, the first time we were both drunk (bad I know) and he kept said I was gorgeous and had a gorgeous body "but I'm sure you hear that all the time.." is what he said. There was a lot of kissin and pillow talk afterwards, but the second time there wasn't much of that. :confused:

He is either very shy or he is not really into you. I would not call him and see what happens.

The other option is to not beat around the bush and just ask him why he never calls you and find out if he wants to pursue a relationship with you. Direct and honest communications is one of the best things for a relationship...but very rarely used.

[charles457]

I think its just cheap and very basic relationship. Nothing long term.

[aprces]

i don't think can measure with money or any other things similar, i always believe the first experience that you've done with someone who is the guy or girl you should marry him or her. is not a joke, it's based on love, love first , then , i don't you whether you agree with me or not